I am an arms warrior for PVP and my arena partner is a healadin.

2v2

We both have our PVP boots, belt, bracers and some other misc items. We also have couple peices of the gladiator set each. The rest is raid gear, from T4, kara and higher.

Heres some scenarios that are just miserable

Two warlocks with two felhounds.
Cmon. Both dogs lock up my healadin and one of us dies. I've feared the dogs away. I've tried killing the dogs. I was successful once with killing one warlock, then one dog. But this combo just feels impossible, we lose to it ALL the time. Shes spell locked, cant even bubble sometimes before one of us is dead.

I can kill a warlock in no time. 1700 white auto-attack crits. Close to 3k mortal strikes. Aint hard.

BUT... 2 lock + 2 felhound can kill a pally faster than I can take one...almost pointless to fight

Two mages.
Same story. Both counterspell and lock her while one of us dies. Cant bubble spell locked, cant cleanse and typically, cant move either. Occasionaly we beat this combo but not often.

Warrior, shadow priest
Really sucked. Immediately, she got silenced by the priest, and both doubled me dead. If it isn't me, then its her. same difference. I chose the shadow priest to attack, but in 2 against 1 I didn't last very long at all. With the s-priests bubble I cant kill them as quickly as the two of them can kill one of us together.

Warlock and healadin
That warlock can kill my healer long before I can kill theirs. Cant kill the warlock because then he just gets healed. Fel hunter spell locks my healer anyhow, much more efficiently than an intercept stun or pummel. Loss every time.

Warrior and healadin
Is a pure gear match game of "which healadin dies first". Its terrible. And if the other warrior is mace stun specced with stormherald, ODDS ARE my healer is dying first.

Druid + Anything
Is almost assumed loss. I spend the ENTIRE TIME root, cyc. root, cyc. root, cyc. root, cyc. Can only trinket once, can only cleanse so fast, especially if your healing yourself. Druid + anything is a completely rediculous match, I hate it, It makes me hate them. Seriously. IF BY CHANCE I do get out of both CC and hit the druid, they BEAR up. If by chance I do decent damage to them, they shapeshift OUT OF THE HAMSTRING and run away free. and SOMETIMES, come back with full mana.

What are we honestly doing wrong?

We go to battlegrounds together. mmmmm eots weekend. Its fun. I can fight 2-3 people at once in battlegrounds. And kill them. Healers actually die. My partner stuns people who run for their life. Or she'll cast n get the last hit as they run. LOL. We often walk out with most kills and most heals done. Its almost too easy. Even games we lost this weekend, we topped charts.

Even druids (my arch enemy) die easy in battlegrounds. Little more work / can be annoying but not such a big deal

We get into arena 2v2? Its a JOKE.

Most every arena match is a game where the oponent runs around the square object in the center of the graveyard, up and down around and through. I cant even get a hammy on them. Intercept out of the question... I am often useless, really... as I spend the entire match playing cat and mouse up and down ramps, around pillars, over objects or fighting roots+cyclone spam, while one of us dies.

Then others we know - who dont PVP for anything except their 10 arena games for a weapon or chestpeice, have 1700+ ratings and say "its so easy!"